First off Narf....
Don't play the demo servers, the people playing those usually play just to be arses. Yeah most servers are good though, here is a list of names (don't remember ip addresses at the moment) that I can come up with off the top of my head.
DEDICATED KATABATIC
New Noobs Server
Any meltdown 2 mod server (the mod community is extremely dedicated)
Note, that playing in noob servers or servers using BWAdmin will automatically kick you from the server if you have more than 5 team kills. It sucks if you have bad aim, but it keeps the arses out. Plus most player-run servers will kick you if you are team killing, or inventory killing. Also, most people will kick you if you excessively whine.
I have only had 1 bad Tribes experience where this guy kept inventory killing me, I complained to the admin, then I just killed the guy cause nothing was being done... then I got kicked because I accidentally "blew up" the rest of the players in the area using a modded weapon. I didn't know it was that powerful, honest! LOL... I have been playing Tribes 2 for about a year now and only one bad 15 minute experience isn't enough to phase me
And YES you can download Tribes 2 movies and such from
http://www.tribes2.com/
You can pick up the completely patched game for $10 at your local Best Buy or Wal-Mart if you don't like ordering from Online. Better hurry though, I don't think many Tribes 2 copies will be left on shelves when Tribes 3 comes out!