OT-A personal note

Rojero · #1 July 20th, 2003, 10:25 PM

Well guys
I feel close enough to you that i need some place to talk. In the past few days, it has been increaasingly difficult for me to be on and play. I will try and do my best, but it does not look good.
My personal life, has come to the point where my marriage is now soon to be over. This has been going on for some time and I dont know what will happen.
I have 2 games i am playin in and hopefully i will still be able to play
KOTH Gecko
Space 101
I just want to inform you guys on my status
Thanks again i apprecaite all the advice and friendship i have recieved while being here and enjoy callin you guys friends and comrades
See you guys soon

Slynky · #2 July 20th, 2003, 10:48 PM

You have my sympathy.

Sincerely.

I wouldn't propose to offer any advice, well, because I don't know you that well and because I don't know the circumstances.

One thing I DO know, though, is that, believe it or not, you have people here that you have met and chatted with that care a lot more than you would think. I've seen this same thing in other forums and it has always amazed me how people you don't "really" know feel your sadness and want to help in the tiny ways that they can.

So, don't retreat away. Come and chat and play and use us as a place to, well, just get away from real life a bit.

tesco samoa · #3 July 21st, 2003, 12:26 AM

Agreed.

When one must reflect on life.

It is nice to type it out...

Take Care Rojero. And See you soon.

Fyron · #4 July 21st, 2003, 12:29 AM

Good luck Rojero.

geoschmo · #5 July 21st, 2003, 02:13 AM

Rojero, I have been in your shoes man. It sucks I know, but I can tell you just as surely it does get better. Give it time and take care of yourself and you will be amazed at what you can get through in life.

Geoschmo

Slynky · #6 July 21st, 2003, 02:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by geoschmo:
Rojero, I have been in your shoes man. It sucks I know, but I can tell you just as surely it does get better. Give it time and take care of yourself and you will be amazed at what you can get through in life.

Geoschmo

I hesitated to say what Geo said. But to echo it, it's true. Humans, and humans in sadness can really recover and move on and find themselves happy with something else. Be it love of a child, a pet, a hobby, a close friend...something.

Let me tell EVERYONE here...I've sat on a creekbank with a rifle in my mouth. True story! No need to lie about crap like that in a serious thread like this. BUT, I put it aside. And I'm so happy I did!

Will · #7 July 21st, 2003, 07:12 AM

Well, I'm too young to either understand what you're going through, or offer any advice... So, I'll just say good luck.

Erax · #8 July 21st, 2003, 04:39 PM

Good luck Rojero. I can only repeat what has alreay been said here : no matter how bad the present moment may be, you can recover from it and move on.

Stone Mill · #9 July 22nd, 2003, 01:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by tesco samoa:
Agreed.

When one must reflect on life.

It is nice to type it out...

Take Care Rojero. And See you soon.

There is subtle brilliance in this, tesco.

Ro, hang in there Bud.

BadAxe · #10 July 22nd, 2003, 06:46 PM

We have never met, and I infrequently post here, so I am more of a lurker.

But I have been where you are, and someone helped me by suggesting what I now pass on to you, that you join a divorce recovery group.

It is by far the best thing that I did to help me through the pain, and I will forever be grateful to the other people in my group, and grateful to the person who led me to them.

Good luck

[ July 22, 2003, 17:53: Message edited by: BadAxe ]