cpbeller ,
() I Colonize all green dot planets only,as fast as possible, use pop transport ships,do repete order,The first 2-6 planets colonized i use a 96%Research,1%shipyard,1%resupply (1%spaceport), if in another solar system.
() The very first turn make few scout ships even tho there defenseless etc.
() I research 1 level only of military/Physics with the game start up of 100000 research points, then ship /engines a few levels.
() Then I create a couple of Weapon Platforms,then finally a few shielded warships.
() Then i mine the Wormhole outer outlet systems..
() I never explor more then 5 system away from my own system. That way i usally dont intercept AI.
() If i even see 1 AI ship,even a metal obsticle moving or not, I PANIC

, Well you know then to gear up.