transfering a cursed item (through death?)

[Omnirizon]

I did a search and read about about cursed items. While I ascertained (with my amazing powers of observation) that a cursed item on a commander who dies will be picked up by another commander in that province, I'd like conformation on this and a little insight into how it works; plus some advice on killing a commander.

I have an item that is, unbeknownst to me, cursed; and I want to give it to a particular commander. so I give it to a guy to carry to this commander. This particular item is an artifact, rather valuable, and I don't want to lose it. The flavor description gives no indication that the item might be cursed, the name gives no indication, there is really no reason to think the item is cursed. One would only know if they opened the manual and saw that the item is, for some unusual reason, cursed. For this reason, I now suggest placing a "cursed" tag on the item ability area. In fact, it would be nice if all items had a screen similar to the commander screen that displayed nicely all their abilities and exactly what they did.

Now I want to know how to get this item from the commander carrying it to a specific other commander. I gather that if I can kill the commander carrying it, it will be picked up by another. 1) How can I ensure it is picked up by the one I want to have it? 2) How can I kill the commander carrying it?

My best guesses to these questions are 1) have the commander carrying it and the commander to recieve it be the only commanders in that province. and 2) use a fever fetish (I've never used these before, but I hear they kill commanders).

any help?