I agree with you almost totally here D. The point of all this is to have fun. If someone uses a technique you haven't seen before, then you have learned something. The best thing to do in that case is to learn from it and apply it to your next game. Either by defending from it, or using it on some other poor soul.
One thing I might disagree with is on the surrendering point. For example in the Survivor Tourney we are both in. The tourney was very clearly laid down as an elimination format. Get rid of everybody else eventually and be the only one left.
I did neglect to specifically state up front that I would like people to not surrender when faced with insurmountable odds. But that is because it didn't occur to me to do so. There is no benefit to your race in surrendering to another under the Survivor tourney format. Even if the race you surender to ends up defeating your enemy, you are still out.
Because of this it strikes me that allowing surrender in or tourney makes it too easy to drag people into the "emotional" aspects you are talking about.
At best it would seem vindictive, at worst it could appear collusive. I am just trying to keep things level for everybody and not interfere with anybodys fun.
In a team game however where it is one group against another, instead of every person ultimatley for themself, surender may be a perfectly valid strategy if you are faced with insurmountable odds and don't feel you could efectivly contribute to the team effort any longer.
Also, say the circumstances were slightly different. Since our first round games are starting four players going till the first two are eliminated. If one player were already eliminated from your game and you were close to being knocked out and did not feel you had any hope of survival, I would not have a problem with you submitting. Since at that point the game ends and it would not affect the outcome in any way, just as a way of not prolonging the agony.
For the most part though, I agree if no rule is set down prohibiting something, and the game allows it, then go for it. Only when it goes against the predetermined purpose of that specific game would I disagree.
Geo